Hello Didier and Florence,
I am sorry for not being in touch with both of you for a while. I am now back in London, my toothache is fine, but have left my father back home who may get hospitalised very soon ( in a day or two). I dont know when i may have to ruch back to India but I am praying.
Anyhow please give me a day since I just arrived yesterday- night and am trying to get myself organised which will be done by today. I missed London and am so glad to be back… have all my notes with me, so I will be going through them and trying to put them in order. How r you florence, busy? There has not been any news from your end… how is your project coming along. If we are to submit the proposal together all 3 of us, we need to dicsuss our works and see how we can write regarding a new place. Unless you have changed your mind.
Didier I hope your confusion has gone? I have one simple suggestion to you - yes things are not what they appear to be, yet the truth of the matter or the reality is today/now. One can go into metaphysical realms or take recourse to language, play of words etc but there is an old dated saying which goes as - a rose is a rose is a rose… you may argue and say that how do u know that this is red and not green and who decides, … sometimes one just has to take somethings as granted for convinience and then work ones way forward thru that. We live in a social world, thats the truth/reality, there will always be many sides to a coin, but what you choose to believe is the ultimate reality, and taking that as a given move on and do not allow any confusion to take you away from that. There are many paradoxes, sometimes dwelling too much on the paradox takes you away from understanding the paradox itself.
Cheers and take care,
Bindu
